Whole Astrology–Oracle Card Read for Sagittarius Full Moon

On June 9, 2017, the Full Moon transits in Sagittarius and Jupiter which have been retrograde since February, goes Direct. This gives us double Jupiter energy.

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Whole Astrology—A New Age for Pisces

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Pisces, I’m writing this post especially for you. However, we all have Pisces somewhere in our Natal Charts and that’s where you will find transformation occurring in your life. 

Also, look at the cusps in your charts with Gemini, Sagittarius, and Virgo. And look at planets transiting in your 9th and 12th houses. And finally, look at the place in your chart that is between 26 and 29 degrees Sagittarius because that is the Galactic Center for you.

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Intuitive Coaching 101–First Aid for Narcissistic Abuse (Self-Love)

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Do not be fooled by the kindness of a narcissist stranger. The apple is poisonous.

In the past two years since I learned about narcissism, I have met countless people who have suffered narcissistic abuse. They often have hurt or angry expressions on their faces, poor posture, and low self-esteem. They believe that they are shattered but have survived the shattering.

And then I discovered wise sages who suffered this abuse and made it to the other side. They are like Persephone in the Greek myth who returns from Hades a transformed woman. Survive narcissistic abuse and then take those experiences to enlighten others. This is called thriving.

I have learned basic thriving skills from my own experiences with narcissistic abuse and from the stories other people have shared. Those of us who are about to make it to the other side or who are already waiting on the other side share commonalities. First and foremost, they have practiced self-care and stopped blaming themselves for other people’s toxic behaviors.

We all require a first aid kit when dealing with narcissistic people who are around us on a daily basis–at home, at work, and in the community. Here’s what I learned from my experiences and the teachings of others:

  1. Take your focus off the narcissist or person with toxic behavior. Then place that focus on your interests and passions.
  2. Practice self-forgiveness (It’s not your fault others abuse you).
  3. Practice self-love in the extreme. Play with your inner child and let your inner child know how much you love and adore him or her.
  4. Eat a healthy diet of super foods and stay clear of junk food (which robs you of your life force).
  5. Exercise, preferably outdoors in nature
  6. Spend time with animals
  7. Play more and don’t allow guilt to creep in
  8. Refrain from drinking alcohol or partaking in drugs (these substances create holes on your aura and allow narcissistic people to attach energy cords to you)
  9. Have a sense of humor
  10. Meditate and get in touch with angels and spiritual guides
  11. Allow yourself discomfort as you hang around non-abusive people (they will feel unfamiliar to you at first)
  12. Pursue your passions, gifts, and interests and don’t allow anyone to stop you
  13. Know that the narcissist is projecting his or her own faults on to you (they tell lies about you and their criticism is really about them, and not you)
  14. Make yourself narcissist-proof by not trying to please others
  15. Give up your idea of perfectionism
  16. Connect to the Universal Force also known as, God
  17. Take plenty of Epsom salt baths to clear your aura and cleanse your body
  18. Do a juice detox of your physical body
  19. Seek therapy
  20. Wear protective gemstones on your body that ward of negative energy (tourmaline, obsidian, tiger’s eye, and hematite along with rose quartz)

Stop narcissistic abuse by setting clear and firm boundaries. Never waver from those boundaries and know that the narcissist will use every trick in his or her book, including fake kindness/concern to get you to lift your boundaries. Learn to say no, and stop trying to please others. Stop looking to others to heal your core wounds. And stop looking to others to rescue you or fill you up because you feel lonely or empty. That only makes you the perfect target for a narc.

Heal your wounds and become narc-proof. And then like the others who crossed the finish line and thrive today, learn from your experiences and then teach others how to escape narcissistic abuse. I am imagining a planet that is peaceful, harmonious, and filled with love. There are no narcissists on this planet. Let’s co-create this new peaceful world.

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Whole Astrology–North Node moves into the Sign of the Lion

On May 10, 2017, the North Node moves into Leo and the South Node moves into Aquarius.

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Neptune Girl Recites the History of Western Astrology (the condensed version)

In 2012 (or was it 2013?), I gave an astrology lecture at Village Books in Bellingham, Washington. I presented the history through a PowerPoint slide show and lecture. Then during the past several years, I wanted to convert the presentation into a video.  After a little research, I learned how to do that. However, I had to record the narration three or four times. First, I recorded the narration with the program Audacity. That didn’t work. Then I narrated the video with the PowerPoint program. That didn’t work. So, I saved the slides individually and uploaded them on to Movie Maker and then learned that I would need to narrate the slides again!

So, the video is far from perfect. I hope you still glean historical facts about astrology and you feel proud to join the astrology train. Subscribe to my YouTube channel, Astrologer Patricia. Thank you.

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Neptune Girl Gazes at the Gemini New Moon (Oracle Card Read)

Thankfully, the Taurus New Moon brought us a sweet time of respite. To quote the Monty Python writers, the Gemini New Moon brings up the phrase, “And now for something totally different…” The Gemini New Moon comes to us from left field and it’s a whammy. How will you use this energy to heal your inner wounds?

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Intuitive Coaching 101–Creating Your Vision with Glue Stick & Scissors

vision boardEver since I created my first vision board while I was participating in the Artist’s Way program the first time, I have become a fan of vision boards. I have honed my techniques over the years thanks to the advice of metaphysical coaches Sandra Anne Taylor and Sonia Choquette.

For those of you reading this post who have never created a vision board, dream box, or wish book, I’m going to mention a few tips I learned from the pro-coaches. I’m also including examples of my vision boards. You might also check out YouTube videos on creating vision boards, especially if you are a visual or audio learner.

Your basic supplies are images which you can create yourself through drawing, painting, or through photographs. Or you can rip images from magazines. Then you will also require a good pair of scissors (I prefer using children’s scissors) and glue sticks.

Carve out an hour in your day and find a quiet space where you can create your own ritual for creating your vision board. Remove all distractions including your computer, phone, and other devices. However, playing uplifting music in the background can enhance the process.

Once you’ve selected and sorted through your images, arrange them on a large piece of cardboard or thick paper. Then glue them into place. At this point, write affirmations and power words on the collage you have created and then for extra magical effect, either draw yourself in the middle of the board or add a profile photo. This speeds up the manifestation process according to Sandra Anne Taylor (she mentioned this trick in one of her Hay House Radio shows).

Once you complete the board, find a location to hang it or prop it against a wall. If you decide to cover both sides of the images, then hang a string across your work or play space and then use clothes pins to hang the image so you can view both sides. Personally, I like using both sides of the board and I love to cram in images. Some people prefer lots of white space around their images. It’s all about preference.

If you live in a tiny house or small space and you don’t want to display a huge vision board, you can also create wish books or treasure boxes (see photos below). For the treasure box, find a small box you like. Then decorate the outside of the box with images. You can also paste images inside the box. Then in the future when you find images or items representing your desires, toss those in the box. Keep the box on an altar or hide it in a drawer so you can pull it out six months or a year from the date you created the treasure box to see what you manifested. This is fun.

Finally, if you prefer creating a wish book, buy any inexpensive composition book or journal at a dollar store. And then follow the tips for the vision board. Except instead of working with a large piece of paper, you cut the images to fit the pages of your composition book or journal. And here’s a trick, don’t complete the entire book in one sitting. Spend six months gathering and pasting images into your wish book.

I came up with the name “wish book” because I experienced a childhood memory of the Sears catalog that we called a wish book when I was a child. And in a way, perusing the pages of that thick catalog (which you could use as a door stop), I sent rockets of desire into my childhood vortex. It’s funny in a way because I ended up manifesting some of those 1970s styles found in the pages of the catalog when I bought vintage clothing as an adult. Some desires take decades to manifest! Remember we manifest after we release resistance to our desires. And that could take decades.

I have also experienced quicker manifestations that took only months. I manifested a pair of moccasin boots within several months of desiring a pair of moccasin slippers. I’m including the photo below.

So, there you go. Now manifest your desires by creating your reality with glue, paper, and images.

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Whole Astrology–Taurus New Moon Coming up April 26, 2017

Currently, Saturn, Pluto, Mercury, and Jupiter are RX. Mars is in Gemini and the Sun is in Taurus.

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Whole Astrology–Scorpio Full Moon

Coming up on May 10, 2017. Thanks to Mercury RX, I did run into an echo problem with my microphone. Thanks for your patience.

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Intuitive Coaching 101–It’s Not Your Fault (when you feel angry at a narcissist)

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I know that I said I wouldn’t write any more posts about narcissists. The problem is that narcissists in all their various stripes are throwing chaos upon the world. They run our economies, they run corporations, the government, the media, and all the industries and religions. They show up as teachers in schools. They show up as community leaders. They show up as police officers. And they don’t give a blank about any of us.

If you are a kind and loving person just for the sake of it, you encounter narcissists. They prey upon kind people. They prey on authentic people. They prey on confident and successful people (who harbor guilt or shame). They prey on children. They prey on the elderly. They prey on people who find themselves in desperate situations. And they’re so good at acting and wearing masks that often you don’t know their true identity until it’s too late. Then the real damage has been done to your brain and your physical body.

Narcissists have games that they play to control and manipulate you. They are worst than having a large tapeworm swimming in your gut. They will cause worst damage than a disease because they cause dis-ease. Some of their games include gaslighting which they use to make you feel like you’re losing your mind. They also do something called hoovering which is their way of sucking you of your life force and then dumping their inadequacies and projections on you.

For most of my life, I have been prey to narcissists. Only I didn’t have a label or any knowledge of these folks. All I knew was that I suffered from depression and anxiety. I suffered from inflammation in my body and nothing ever went smoothly in my life. I dated narcissists who left me feeling like an empty shell. I had bosses and landlords of this ilk. And I’ve shared houses with them. And here is what I learned from my own experiences.

  • It’s important that we forgive ourselves because we are not at fault when dealing with this type of human predator (also lumped in with psychopaths and sociopaths).
  • It’s not our job to be kind to them and enable them to play their wicked games
  • Analyzing them or going to counseling with them is not helpful (they will use this against you)
  • If you meet someone that seems too agreeable and lacking a personality, run, because you are most likely dealing with a covert narcissist (the worst kind)
  • Don’t be fooled by authority figures who say they have your best interest at heart while you feel that they are actually abusing you (follow your intuition)
  • If you feel sick around a person, suffer from obesity (after you have met them), or suffer from an autoimmune disease (after you have met them), there is a good chance you are dealing with a narcissist
  • If you believe that you are with a narcissist, come up with an exit plan now
  • You cannot change a narcissist even if he or she says that he or she will try harder because they care about you
  • They have no empathy and when they say that you are hurting their feelings (guilt trip) you have actually wounded their ego (and they will get revenge)
  • The souls of narcissists have exited their body and ego is completely running the show
  • While a narcissist would seem like a decent person if they chose to get therapy and heal themselves, most of them will never do this. They won’t do this because too many of us are enabling their behavior
  • Our societies worship narcissists. We give them power over our businesses. We spend money on narcissistic entertainers and call this “artist temperament”. Our societies vote narcissists into top political offices

So what can we do?

  • Research narcissism through articles in scientific journals and watch YouTube videos by experts (And in my opinion, those of us who have endured relationships with narcissists count as experts)
  • Educate your non-narcissists friends and families about this epidemic
  • Heal any issues of codependencies, lack of self-worth, and practice self-care
  • Support your friends, colleagues, and family members as they get out of relationships with narcs (your friends should never have to go to a shelter. Open up your home to them)
  • Don’t spend money on entertainment presented by narcissistic entertainers, authors, or other cultural icons because this says that narcissism is okay when in fact, it is harmful to the planet
  • And finally, stand up for yourself, balance your emotions, and fill yourself up with your talents, skills, positive attributes and love (this makes you almost narcissistic-proof.

I believe that the only way to bring peace on the planet is to heal this epidemic on the planet. And to stop allowing parasitic people to prey on us.

Look for videos by Ross Rosenberg, Lisa Romano, Meredith Miller, and Kim Saeed. Use their meditations for best results if they supply them. And blessings on your journey to wholeness and authenticity.

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